I get her. I was once mad too. I was mad first at my husband, but eventually my anger went back to my Creator. God. However, I found out His shoulders are BIG enough to handle that anger and BIG enough to wait on me -- until that anger was placed in the right spot.
But until that happened - it was easier for me to just think and tell myself that the person who was hurting me was not God -- but another. One who had hardened his heart. One who listened to the enemy rather than the Holy Spirit within him.
Until that one with his free will changes -- it was awful. It hurt.
Another is feeling that same way.
Call me crazy and this may not be theoretically correct with your theology - but this helped me wait just a little while longer on God....
Hell is a real place.